Thanks to boundary clarification. The reason I believe she is mlc and not just waw(after everything I'd expect her to be waw) is that her erratic behavior is in line with this entire list:
It doesn't excuse my faults but I think it helps me understand and empathize with what she seems to be going through.
As for the platter it left my grandparents home and was transported by my parents to me. I'd never had used it outside the home but until yesterday I wouldn't have thought that'd river be in question. I agree that I am sensitive and trying hard to stay centered. Our wedding view boundaries gave been trampled on and I guess I'm just trying to protect...my emotions without building too many walls.
I'm 33, she's 32. S4 S2 Married 6 years together 8 EA started Oct 2011 ILYBINILWY February 2012 EA turned PA (for sure)March 2012
