So, out of surprise, H messaged me.

He still doesn't know that I know he is still seeing the OW!!! And he still lies to me, I can't believe it.

So, I'd like to hear from you and how to respond to this. I really don't know right now. Please, help me.... smirk

H said that he is scared to talk to me and thinks everyone is disappointed in him. He said for us both to heal from this, we need to be apart. He said he went to a therapist and was suggested that we should truly be apart to see how we feel. He said he wants to focus on career first, and said he wants me to do the same thing and that he is sorry.

Okay, here is my opinion about his lies. I REALLY want to tell him that I KNOW he is still cheating and seeing that OW!!! And I am very very sure of that I have proof. BUT, he is still giving these lies, these right sounding lies, these glamourous "reasons". Should I even be happy that he didn't bring up the D? What the h is he thinking? Or is he just making me quit first?