1. I wish she was more patient and less irritable with small thing that upset, like the house is messy with toys, toilet lid is not on, if I am busy, she would not relate that to I don't care.
2. She was less stubborn and controlling to do only her way but also adjust to what I have to say and do
3. I wish she respected me more and appreciated what I do and did in the past
4. I wish she was less money minded and would judge things on long term value
5. I wish she didnot compare and feel she has less and not have this grass is greener on other side and feel bad syndrome
6. Wish she has a mind of her own and would get less influenced and dependent to her mom.
7. I wish she complains less and see the good in the situation and be happy with what she has now.
8 I wish she was not condescending and compare her self with me and not judge me with my current situation or look for my weak areas and us them to gain power.
9. I wish she was humble and have patience and decency to process information when she is that rage stage.
10. I wish she looks at the postive things in me and demphasize my negatives.
11. I wish she learns my love language and could change how she deals with me.
12 Wish she could be fair and use then same standard for herself and for me.
13. Wish she was a bit easy going and let go of past disappointments.
14. I wish she would forgive and forget the past and not have a laundry list of negative events ready to throw in an argument, just to win.
15. I wish she was more focused on my son and me and develop her family.
16. I wish she was more respectfully to my family and would not keep count of things.
17. I wish she was less bossy and would not be control freak and she be honest and be straight forward and express hidden issues.
M - 39W- 38 M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths Son - 2 yr day care S - 9/12 Divorced- 10/10/13 Visits with son other week Working on myself & son,co-parent,change,assertive,alpha/beta, entrepeurneur,care,heal,centered
