Nero - your bid for power doesn't really work for me because my H has none over me. He has long ago conceded before the fight saying that everything we've made together is mine. He wants nothing in life, hates money, believes the house should be mine.

So I find that even when I used to try and get back at him I was the loser, because he has a callous heart. If I packed his bags he would through everything in the garbage. So I stopped that behavior quick. How can I kick a guy down who is already harder on himself than I can ever be.

WE have to get away from the assumptions, they are deadly! I just want to be happy again, I love when he leaves for work now, GTFO is all I am thinking as 8:30p approches. I used to L this man!


The past can't be ahead of you in the future.
You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction.
What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!