I'm actually NOT dealing with the friendship thing. My H, who is the WAS - or who started as the WAS - has no interest in being friendly. He's just being, well, he's just not being nice at all. So who knows what that means.

Your H does still love you, I can feel it. I also sense he feels guilty about leaving you. I think you have a chance at putting it back together Ruby once the sheen of OW starts to wear off.

In the meantime, you keep going the way you have been. GAL, flirting... YES! Go buy some new clothes. Look hot. I can tell you are sassy and you should work it.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page