Originally Posted By: TJPc

How do you stop thinking about your WAH/MLCER? With recent info, I am struggling to keep my mind clear.


We as women pretty much never turn the focus inward. This is what you must do now. Take care of yourself and your girls. Thinking about him is taking energy (via emotion) away from YOU. Give yourself time to grieve and to cry but do you best not to let it consume you. It DOES get easier. My H moved out three months ago and I can go through a day without being upset. He is ruining HIS life, not MY life. I am worthy of being loved and will move on. THIS IS NOT OUR FAULT! They will wake up and realize what they've done and will be devastated.

Snodderly has wonderful advice-see an attorney and ensure your financial interests are protected. It's hard but necessary. This is part of taking care of yourself. Everything one breath at a time, one moment at a time, one day at a time. You CAN do this!


You're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
-Christopher Robin to Pooh

Romans 12:12 Rejoice in your hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer.