Karen...I do have a coach...will be speaking to him today at 5. I would like a buddy, if that is at all possible. H says he doesn't want counselling..I think it would help...not sure what to do...I don't want to live wondering what if...or have him wondering what if...that isn't the way to live is it? We used to have such a good marriage, one that everyone evied..yet now here we are.. Funny thing is...to him there was never an issue about his feelings towards me, that he would never leave me..our family...he wanted the best of both worlds. Neither of us..could deal with the other...maybe I should have been more patient...as i have read that affairs usually run it's course within 6-12 months..but honestly felt I was losing my mind. Any suggestions what to do next?
