You cannot make her tell the truth. She can only tell the truth.

What you can do is decide if you can live with lies or live with truth.

You don't say.

Tell me the truth.

You say.

Please stop. We both know you are lying. And you add in the part about living with the lie or live with truth.

Yes she cheated. ( Has it occurred again in the marriage ? )

So do you want to live that moment over and over , or do you want to heal together and work a foundation of trust and compassion and communication?

Figure out what you need to over come this.

Then move forward and shape that reality.

It is as simple and as difficult as that.

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unconditional love is awesome!