My opinion? Your wife is in at least an EA, if not a full blown PA. Sorry, that's my take. It explains her sudden mood swings.

So on here, there are two schools of thought that I like to call Confront and Bo Beep. I like to think, along the lines of Mr. B, that you can still stand for you marriage, but you won't put up with an open marriage or outside influences on your family.

You are getting a lot of advice, some you might find conflicting. But only you are in your situation, and it's your life, and your decisions.


Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.