Keep being a great Daddy. I plan to be and will never give that up. My W has been very neglectful of both responsibilities and their emotional stability and completely irresponsible. They are in a zone that they don’t see the collateral damage. This is why we can only take so much of it personally.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.