Sorry reading from iPhone and will reRead again later:
3 things I've learned:
1. I can only control ME and not her behavior actions 2. I need to work on myself regardless of the outcome of my marriage 3. Pursue or smothering wife only pushes them further away 4. I have learned to become less reactive
I do feel like everyone says I'm obsessive on here. Isn't part of this forum to post and journal. I mean I'm not reacting to lots of stuff she has done. Remember she tossed a laptop at my head thx giving night and told me to F off. I didn't react etc.
Where am I going wrong with my Dbing?
Am I not in counseling , meditating , I don't pursue her. Is there a giant piece I'm missing? Besides taking focus off her 100%?
Again thx for reply I'll reRead again.
25 there is a chance no matter what I change that both feet are out the door
