"The problem with my wife is that she is a complex person."
She's not. Did you actually try going back to read my post on what your W's LL was? 25years is right. Sometimes you do sound lazy in terms of your R.
"She doesn't really go crazy over gifts, however she likes to give big gifts. That seems like a contradiction to me."
It doesn't matter what you think or believe. It only matters what she thinks/believes.
"I do compliment her a lot."
You're only doing now and you haven't done it before.
"Don't thrash me, but I was watching the Oprah network last night. They have this show on cheating. You basically hear it from the cheater and the spouse. they don't use the same words as here, but the concepts are the same. it was an eye opener."
Really? So did you learn anything about your own A?
"I want to apologize to my wife for the stuff I've don't, but I don't think now is the time."
Didn't you already do that?
"I am also want to bring up couples counseling since that seemed to help a lot of people on the show."
But your W has no desire to do so. That's why it won't work.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
