I would say lets start with a couple of dates and see how it goes. Since he has had apt in city for four years, I would say MC and continue living apart. There are a lot of unresolved issues in the marriage on both our parts and although I am finding my way it would not be beneficial to either of us if he moved back in, lets say tomorrow. Could I continue to 180 and be at peace, probably not lol! That's why I have such respect for those that still live with their spouses and are dbing. The strength it requires must be amazing!
You think it's confusing try being me lol!
What am I getting out of these emails? Contact because I do not get to see him. Have I initiated any R talk etc. nope. He is trying to respect my boundaries, but can't seem to decide where the line between being friends and being friendly is. Maybe me neither...I will look at this a little harder
