Just two quick questions : -If "Receiving Gifts" is one of her 5 love languages, how not giving her anything for Xmas is going to help my cause. Am I not burning the biggest opportunity of the year to at least fulfill that need?
Your W has a lot of built up resentment for you. Until you get past that, your gifts will be fruitless.
You can give her a gift, BUT it is almost a guarantee it will not warrant what you expect or hope. When we do these types of things and attach an expectation, we usually come away disappointed. I'm sure you'll tell me you don't expect anything in return. If that is the case, then don't do it.
Simply give her a card wishing her a Merry Christmas, signed Bruce. Nothing more.
Originally Posted By: Big Bruce
- While back in France these next weeks, should I write an email to say hi, tell her how things are going, etc... or NC (no contact at all), although a bit blunt,is a best approach?
Only contact her about anything that pertains to your son. Otherwise, leave her alone.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
