She does not want to receive love from you. Focus on the rules first. Trying to throw love at her now will put her off.

You have to be very subtle in offering loving gestures to her right now, and subtlety is not your strong suit. Try to be conservative.

She's not going to forget about you or worry that you don't love her. Right now she's trying to get space from you and you're asking her on dates and buying her presents. There's no fear of her forgetting you...you should be worrying more that your continued forceful presence is reminding her repeatedly of how much she does not want to be with you.

Step back from her, and give your love to your son. THAT is very attractive.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.