During our counseling session, we more or less argued about everything. We hadn't done that before in front the of the counselor. After the session, everyone (me, my wife and even the counselor) seemed to be at an end point. We discussed mediation and speaking with attorneys. When we left the room, my wife and I shared an elevator. We spoke the entire time during the ride down to the lobby in a much more controlled tone. We spent another 10-15 minutes in the lobby expressing that we did not want to leave the relationship in an angry rage and how it had only been a week ago that we discussed having a friendship, so we agreed to let things cool off a little before we made any moves. I guess I will just have to see where that goes. At any rate, it would be better than fighting an ugly divorce battle based on anger and emotion.
