Here is what was said between me and her in the events leading up to her leaving. I was in the process of getting kids ready for showers/baths. I noticed she went upstairs and started putting make up on and blowing drying her hair. I got my S in the shower and came downstairs to get my D in the shower.
Her: I'm going out Me: Ok, are you out for the night Her: I don't know Me: Ok I didn't know what to tell the kids when they asked for you Her: no response, grabs keys and leaves
She then returns home 45 minutes later with mail in hand. No interest in talking to me.
I feel caught here. I feel like we were having positive interactions yesterday and this episode I let slide. Part of me feels like "in the moment" I just put my tail between my legs and said ok have fun.
I feel like I should have said "ok, where are your going?"
Then if she said "none of your business" not to react or if she tells me then great.
It is tough. She does not pull this behavior all the time. Most of the time she will tell me where she is going etc..
Again, How do I let someone go living under the same roof as me. She has told me in the past "this is how I am going to treat you, if you don't like it leave" So I know what I am up against.
Please don't lay into me about this post. I'm trying to see if I handled the situation properly by not asking her where and what she did so abruptly
