It may be a phase she's going through. My sister's d when through it and didn't stop it until someone was saying something about her and it got back to her and it was all scrambled up. Her feelings were hurt, but my sister pointed out that is what happens when you tattle on someone else. She is now 12 and you can't pry any info out of her since that incident.
You can always ignore what she's talking about or calmly tell her you don't want to hear what is going on over at xh's.
I'm sure you don't give a fig what he hears or knows about what you are doing w/your life...after all you are divorced and you are a good mother. You are the only one that can hold your head up high each and every day and still look in the mirror and know that you weren't the one that screwed up the relationship...he can't.
Enjoy the rest of your day.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
