Hey Snodderly, Yes I was too thinking I either need to have a talk with my little girl or just ignore her.
She is an "informant" by nature. She has to report everything! Even before Xh split. So I too wonder what she's telling Xh. It's pretty clear they have their "dad and me"time for 15 minutes a day when he takes them to school.
Xh is sneaky and loves to listen quietly so he can use this information to his advantage. Granted it wasn't always for mean and cruel intentions. But now that MLC is here and his cycling, one day it could be for good intentions, the next cruel.
So at this point he may know about the two men I was getting to now and possibly going to start dating but never panned out. He probably knows that Mom does talk nicely about Dad and does say nice things about him when it's due. He probably also knows I get irritated as all hell with him and get pissy when he doesn't let anyone know what's going on so we can plan things.
At this point I really don't care what he hears about me, I really don't. Because if I was given the oppurtunity for him to sit down and listen, and I tell him directly, there's nothing I've done or said in regards to him infront of the girls that I would not do infront of him.
