H replied last night to email I sent saying the kids were having a tough time. His reply was had a busy day, will think about any advice and get back to you tomorrow. Well, I came to a couple of conclusions myself about the kids, wrote him back with insights and his advice was"sounds like you are on right track". And am also adding to list of phrases WAS handbook has is:
Time will help.
Sigh.
Also said I would save him and SIL seats tomorrow for Ds performance, he is like if you are okay with SIL sure ( remember I went off on her, and apologized)
I wrote back that even when you get mad at people it doesn't mean you don't love them or care for them. I apologized and she accepted and to me it is done.
That is never the way H works though, he takes all the slights and hurts and keeps them. That is why this is going to be a long haul....
