Sometimes angry is good, it gets us through the days like these. I recently told H that his whole BFF idea wasn't a good thing for me...lol! Somedays I am furious as well and it makes for a clean house and fast running times. So use the anger at arse face productively. Do you need a financial agreement or do you have one in place? Can't remember.
Warning though, never text or talk when you are in anger phase...lol. But you know this.
If you look at my thread, I have taken to using a lot of one line standards when I really want to rail and scream....