Some people think that because they have personal issues to sort out, they have to separate or spend lots of time alone. There is no reason in the world why you can't work on yourself and stay in your marriage while you're doing it. In fact, relationships provide a wonderful opportunity for personal growth. Stretch personally, but don't throw your marriage away in the process. If you do relationship-enhancing activities, even if you're not initially in the mood, it often changes how you feel. Sitting around thinking won't change how you feel about your spouse but taking action often will. Michele Weiner-Davis (via @divorce busting)
Well that really says something about my last post.
I have been doing R-E activities for a while now, as described above, I enjoy those times with H very much, as does he. Cuddling and falling asleep is probably the best feeling in a R, but (there the but) it's the inconstancy, the knowledge that there is so much unresolved within himself, and between us!
I want to stretch out to decide if I really do want to stay in the M. Does that make sense?
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
