I agree. It's the children that make me think long and hard about seeing this through. I believe they are a good enough reason for me to give it my best shot and become a better man, even when I don't particularly like who my wife has become. Whether or not she stays, I have the clearer mind (I think) right now and have to remain calm for their sake.

As for the dish, I relocated it from the area with our other "party" platters to a much higher out of the way cabinet. If she gets ridiculous with anything else, a safety deposit box is an excellent idea that I had never thought of before. Thanks!


I'm 33, she's 32.
S4 S2
Married 6 years together 8
EA started Oct 2011
ILYBINILWY February 2012
EA turned PA (for sure)March 2012