Yep, I agree.. The friends thing makes it all a little more palatable I think. Especially for mutual friends, which H is on the wrong side of. I think it may be justification for them and it must be awful nice to fall back on LBS when you need that support.
Not this chicky. I have added, I understand Mhhmm That must have been difficult I can see how you would feel that way That must have been fun!
To my repertoire.
I am happy to open up but not without a move from the other side.
Most helpful in detaching? Little contact ( kids) no personal stuff, getting off of Facebook. Not contacting my long suffering friends with yet another rant lol! Also GAL, someone flirting with me and my D saying " you know, you are really pretty mumma"
Holidays!!!???!! Alcohol is what is getting me through..... . Seriously, today I needed a glass of wine and due to divorce diet one is enough! Also doing new things, being totally behind on wrapping etc. and having my friends stand by me without fail. I willed ably shed a few tears on Christmas afternoon when kids go with H to his family's tree, but they are loved. And if I seem okay with it they will be too!