Tori-LOL! I agree our WAS all want the friend-thing. Pretty textbook, I think. It lets them play both sides of the fence/cake-eat.

The hard part is being a friend is all fine and dandy, but it makes it very difficult to detach. AND, they want our friendship but don't really recipricate a true friend's behaviors.

ruby- what do you find is most helpful in detaching?

And, what are YOU doing to get through the holidays?

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.