Hello everyone... I' m back... It has been 3 yrs and a half since bomb drop. Me and my kids are doing great. My oldest (17) got a job at a snack bar last summer where she got promoted to manager and was also offered manager at the sports complex cafeteria this winter. She is doing great. She will be leaving for University this coming summer. She is studying business. lol Perfect choice for her! My son is now 14. He entered high school this year.. I can see changes in him. Girls instead of video games.lol My other 2 daughters (9 and 12) are really close. They are both succeeding in school and i am very proud of ALL 4.. We have come a longgggggg way. I, myself, went back to the store. I was asked if i could fill-in for a couple of weeks and i have been there for 5 now..lol I am still at school also. I work at the store in the morning, lunch at school and home by 2PM.. Kids get home at 3 so it is perfect... I am negotiating a manager position as we speak.. The opening will be for Jan 23rd. It is looking very good so far .. I have 7 yrs experience in my background and my ex-boss works there so my references are right there... lol Now, My ex... still cycling.. Many mind games... On and Off with his OW. Had a different OW move in with him for awhile. One night, while she was there, i got a series of text telling me how much he loves me..My reply was simply, Please, don' t tell me you love me when your heart belong to someone else.. It is not fair to her nor to me..He answered that his heart didn' t belong to noone.. That it was broken for a longgg time now. He got her out and returned to the one that had a child. Last night, he dumped her and called me to yell it at me. He thought it might make me happy and that i was a F*ckin hypocrite because he saw something on my fb, What?, don' t know... I have nothing on there. Even if i did, shouldn' t i be allowed to date or even remarry if i chose to?? He didn' t let me speak, he hung-up.. We don' t interact that often anymore.. He ususally text me and i rarely reply.. We speak about once a week briefly, for visitations.
Me, I am still single. It is MY choice. I am surrounded with good friends, good kids, good family.. For now, i am content with the way things are.. Well, That was my update... A quick view of my life 3 yrs 1/2 later..