Thanks Snodderly,

I just got hit by some more info from D10. At this point Im wondering if I should just put a "gag" order on her, meaning I don't want to hear ANYTHING ABOUT HIM.

d10 has two Christmas school performances today. One in the afternoon and then one this evening. XH went to the one this afternoon and then told her " I might come to the one this evening". Ok we've made a point to go to her concerts separately just not to see eachother. Apparently OW has grandchildren in the grade school, I didn't know this. Perhaps she wants to come see her grandchildren, though she's never gone to see them before!


Then of course he's telling the girls "we went to see The Hobbit".

I swear if I see them together at the concert tonight Im going to have to walk out because I might just snap. I have never seen them together, nor have I seen OW in several years.

Its probably just me. It's probably him just living his life and not even giving me a second thought and it's me that's getting all these ideas in my head.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.