Something else to look at is their R with other people in their lives. They don't just rewrite history with us.
What I see with my H is a very skewed perspective of people in general. He no longer associates with most of the people he once did. Of course it is all their fault!
I feel like whoever isn't on board with H's messed up way of thinking is OUT. Which would explain why he has severed ties with many people.
Sad. But, ultimately his problem to deal with.
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."