Thanks for support. Bug I did tell him yesterday that he is basically not my person anymore and that an ex wife can't be that person he wants. Like a BFF who totally gets that he confides everything to her and then is seeing hot girl in high school.
I said I am happy to discuss about our marriage etc anytime but feel that our lives now should remain private. He said " you always told me , oh I am going out with so and so , now you don't say". I said " yes, but then we were married, now we are not"
Isn't that strange? Why would he think nothing has changed ?
Funny though, I am being more me without pleasing anyone else right now. But remember, I did whatever I wanted during marriage...look where that got me. So am trying to include him through email or whatever before just making decisions that could affect kids etc. not me privately but the things we share. Like today I asked his advice on kids, as in if he had any, because they have both been pretty down and a bit awful lol! I emailed that it is probably the holidays, as I am finding it hard as well. So they must. But I made sure to include that our day goes on and we watch movies etc. play games so he doesn't think I am moping along lol!
TG. Thanks for your support, going to catch up on your sitch and lend you a virtual shoulder, kay?
