PON,

My XW had a PA in 1999. Read DB/DR, separated for 3 months and got back together and things were good. Third son in 2001.

Second PA in 2007. This time I posted here. Divorced in 2008.

Couple years ago she made overtures that maybe .... but it was too late.

The first time DB saved my marriage.

The second time DB saved me.

Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.