I will try to keep this short. My W of 8.5 yrs started an online R with a gut she met through an online social fitness site. She denied denied denied, then I found proof. He lives in AZ and we live 1800 miles east of there. It started out emotional then became physical when she went out there on a weekend trip before Thanksgiving. She wants me to move out but when I asked about divorce, she said she didn't know. is all she knows is she isn't happy right now, and hasn't been for a long time. I'm starting the 180 and LTR. Does this sound familiar to anyone else? Can anyone offer up suggestions for what I can do?