There can always be hope. Hell, the terms of my D are pretty much complete. Yet nothing has been filed. And I am actually seeing positive interactions with my w. We have shared some laughs, some smiles, and some conversations about more than the children.
There were times that our conversations got a little ugly, but I didn't resort to any R talk. It is so important that you try and stay positive no matter where the discussion goes. You can't control her, and more importantly don't let her actions and words cause you to do anything to justify her position. Tht is exactly what she wants. Right now she is/has rewritten history to justify what she is doing.
It is our job to create doubt.
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