I'm glad to hear everything went so good on your trip. It gives me hope for mine.
You deal with things much better then I do and I love your attitude. I still struggle with all the mixed signals my W gives and I hope I get to where you are soon. If we're intimate again I'm afraid I'd rush out to redo our vows (JK but you get what I mean).
The talk with the grandmother was very interesting info.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are