Floyd, I understand how hard it is but I think you're doing fine with your DBing. As long as you aren't being mean, and it doesn't sound like you are, then you're doing what you need to. Try not to worry about what she's doing, thinking, or read into how she's feeling. If you read my sitch you know it's one of the things I really struggle with so I understand how you're feeling. I know the best thing (probably for both of us) is to GAL and create some detachment and let the big guy above figure out the plan for our future.
What things are you doing towards GAL?
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
