I challenged you not to mention phones being locked or unlocked on here and you accepted. Then you mentioned them. That is where you failed.
You can say on here that you're just journaling, but if you really look hard inside yourself, I think you'll realize that you're still trying to control her and the situation. I'm not the only one who's see it. You still haven't let go.
"If I unlock my phone, maybe she'll unlock hers ...."
My story happened a long time ago and isn't important. My friends on here know the whole story. I just try to pay it forward, keep people from making the same mistakes I made, and most importantly -- No matter what happens; you're gonna be OK.
If you do the hard work.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.