Hi, Ruby,

Just catching up w your posts today, as my sitch has had another BD.

My H too wants to be friends. Right now, I don't think I want that. Friendly (as labug says), yes, but friends, no. I think that is something that MAY happen down the line AFTER we are successful at DBing. In other words, I think they realize they CAN'T have their cake & eat it all the time, they MIGHT second guess their actions.

I like how you are thinking about things in terms of how they may affect YOU and not HIM. That is totally on track! I think that's where I need to focus now too.

Thanks for your continued support too!

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.