Trying really hard to be Thankful today...

[littleGTO]

HI, Sweet.

Been thinking about you, but have been going thru my own new hell these past 3 days.

Bottom line--we can't control anything except ourselves & our own actions. We can't even control our own emotions...but we need to experience them, let ourselved learn from them and move forward.

I've always thought the advice here has been great, impossible at times, but good in theory.

I live in CT, where the recent tragedies happened & it has affected me ENORMOUSLY. Life is precious. Our children are precious. And time is finite. Nobody is promised tomorrow. So my new goal is to look for good things (even if they a miniscule) every day. With children that shouldn't be hard!

Having said all that it is very hard to work "against" your own intuition/desires. I also realized everyone here has to do these things on their own timeline. What works NOW for someone else (even if they are in a similar sitch as your) will NOT necessarily work for YOU. Esp in your sitch where you are pregnant & expecting your H's baby...

I don't blame anyone for their own thoughts about their WAS's esp when there is OP involved! But to have a new life to bring into this world & deal w what you are going through must be doubly difficulty.

We all love u here, Sweet!