Originally Posted By: Many worries
just keeping my head down and out of the way round the house.

I'm continuing with the coach to 5K program. For a big fat beast like me, it's hard.
I started to read a book the the kids every other night, I read the older one a chapter from a book and the younger one a different book. So far the wife hasn't said anything about it either she hasn't noticed or doesn't care. frown

Do this for you and your relationship with your kids. She notices. Even if she doesn't, it's good for you.

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I got a hold of the 5 love languages book. I made it through, but I'm having a heck of a time figuring out my wife's language. I think mine is easy to identify. Should I ask her to take the quiz or read the book? It will help and it would be 10X easier than trying to guess at her language.

Think back over your relationship when things were good. Think back to when you were dating. What did she enjoy? What did you do/act that she liked? This can offer clues to her LL.

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The book also says that I should ask my wife to do things to help fill my love tank, but it seems with things up the air, this probably isn't the time. Speaking of which I've stopped mentioning sex around my wife, but it is sooooooo tough. I was not meant to be a monk, if you get my drift.

A WAS has little concern for your love-tank. Now isn't the time to ask her to fill yours.


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done