Originally Posted By: eyesopen
Question for everyone...I am going to be painting both my children's bedrooms. My wife is very good with colors and decorating in general, should I ask her for her input?

Would it possibly make her feel involved in my home/life? Just looking for ways to show her I value her opinions.


I'm kind of torn on that.

On one hand, it's an opportunity to be strong around her and show her the great person you are.

On the other hand, not doing it with her shows her that you are a strong independent individual and that you're not hinging on her decisions.


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done