Some progress after 2+ months of DBing

[Wendylon]

Thank you so much all of you who chimed in on the dessert topic, Regretful, FY, Tori, Melissa and Kaffee Diem! I'll have some ice-cream in the freezer and leave it at that. We have some mince pies so all will be fine whatever he does and at least he's being a bit more involved. Reading all your replies really helped let go of the outcome in terms of whether or not he follows through.

H kissed me on the mouth yesterday as he left. It really took me by surprise. I can't remember when he last did that.

I was very good at biting my tongue yesterday evening. He kept getting the Roquefort out of the fridge and slicing off a pretty big chunk, eating it, wrapping it up and putting it back in the fridge. He did it at least 3 times, maybe 4. In the past, I would have DEFINITELY made a comment. He's always saying that he's only going to eat cheese as a condiment! So much for that.

On Sunday, I suggested we have dessert when we were out. He said 'Go ahead, twist my arm'. He had a chocolate pudding. He's not losing weight but at least he's not sneaking around and eating in secret. I much prefer him being more transparent. I will need to bite my tongue though if he starts complaining about not having lost any weight. I feel like saying that, like everyone else, his weight makes perfect sense! I know that would be a really annoying thing for him to hear! I would get the 'being right booby prize'.