Drew I was just journaling man. I knew you would bring it up.
"My phone has been unlocked since that original thread I posted. I know she knows because my D uses my phone ALL the time and she even mentioned it in front of my W and me. My D (3) basically asked me why I don't have passcode anymore in front of me and W. I just said Daddy was tired of putting it in etc.."
Why is this a sign of a failure. I unlocked my phone for the sole reason that I didn't like the feeling of keeping it locked. I can't control my kids mentioning stuff like this in front of my W. She was going to learn of this easily by living under the same roof as me. I have nothing to hide. I really don't care what she does with hers. YES it brings my anxiety down a little when she is NOT hiding it. I also do feel that me being open with my phone at times has made her be more open with hers. Part of DB is trying to make changes, noting if they work, and continue doing what is working. NO?
