This is why I'm half crazy these days - last night H came to watch little one for awhile. When she went to bed I asked him if we could agree to not have disagreements thru texting, he said sure. Then we went thru the entire conversation about Christmas and money again, him still being a little angry, but I think finally udnerstanding my side. In the end of it all he's hugging me saying he's sorry for getting so angry and sending those texts, that I do a great job with the bills, etc. I told him I was sorry if I made him feel left out.
So here's the crazy part - he leaves and sends me texts about the sexy outfits he was picturing me in today. Huh? This wouldn't all be so weird if wihtin the last 6 months I had sent him 'flirting' messages and such and he said he didn't like texting like that anymore - which I knew was complete BS at the time. I digress, I never know which way to go anymore.
He says that I don't communicate enough with him. That he shouldn't have to ask about things, I should just share it. I try to explain a little that I don't want to bother him with these details etc since he moved out, letting him have some space. So it's like - which is it, do you want to be a part of this or you don't?! Because you can't expect to be a part of everything and then live at your parents and enjoy making any plans you want, going everywhere as you please.
Anyone else's spouses go from telling you that you are basically awful and then talk like they want to jump in the sack with you the same day?
