And your words...I agree 100 percent. For me it has always been an issue of fear...I remember you addressed that to me when I first arrived here.
I think I can see the step I need to take. I have been sitting with it for a few days now. Its always the thought of my kids that holds me back. I want to stand for my kids, but move forward for myself. I really thought I was doing that.
But I guess I wasn't. I think see it now though. I need to really stop caring what he is doing and thinking. It is really out of my control and if he chooses to leave us so be it.
Thank you LITB. (((((( )))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
