Forward, I have a question for you. I am the one who left, I am the one who filed for D. I have been D again, I was the one who was left this time. Going through this has finally put me in the position my first wife was in years ago and I have had thoughts of contacting her to acknowledge that and apologize. That said, I am mindful of putting her through the pain all over again. I assume she has gotten over it to a good degree by now. From what I now she has remarried and has a child on the way. If you can take a look at my post and let me know what you think. Should I contact her and apologize? Important point: I ended up marrying my high school sweetheart who my first wife was always very sensitive about, always wondering if I loved her as much as I loved the high school sweetheart....