I've read it. I guess while I assumed that a left spouse would always think about what happened from time to time - I thought that making contact again would not be worth whatever she got from it. That said, I really have no idea. Are you suggesting I should consider it? While I assumed that X1 now knows who X2 is, I could be wrong. If she never knew who I went to and finds out now I really think that would crush her. Finding out that I ended up with someone is one thing. Finding out I ended up with HER...that could crush her all over again. I would really need to think about this and I don't know if I will find the answer.
It seems that Forward knows a lot of what happened and who it happened with and is just looking for acknowledgment. But what if the OW ended up being her best friend, or her sister...crushed, all over again...what do you think?
