Pressed her on it and she confessed..tis the season, though, so i let it go)
You're backsliding. Do NOT PRESS her on anything. What are you trying to do, push her away?
I didn't make that clear. The pressure I mentioned here was in September, on DDay. I did not press her this weekend about shopping with her girlfriend.
Originally Posted By: 25
Get a hold of your MIND and reel it IN...and YOU ARE trying to pressure her. Stop it and stop lying about it.
I am trying. I don't bring up R, OM, where she lives. I have to admit I must fool myself sometimes into thinking what I'm doing is not controlling or manipulative.
Originally Posted By: 25
"worry About OM"
hit the nail on the head.
Originally Posted By: 25
you are not in control of your thoughts
I KNOW!!!....ANY SUGGESTIONS???? PLEASE???
Thank you much, 25.
Crimson, thanks. On the phone thing...I had done that for a while, especially when GAL w/kids. When she started getting friendlier I went back on it.
Me 46 W 43 S 21 D 18 S 17 M 22 yrs Discovered OM 9/10/12 W moved to sister's 9/15/12 W moved to OM 9/27/12 Tried to DB until 7/13 W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve. I counter filed 12/2/13.
