Ruby, I'm going through something similar. I can't really separate the two. What I'm trying to do is to continue DBing but also keep myself open to the possibility of meeting someone else. I want to continue GALing as much as I can. However, I will also test how that works, bc every time I meet someone, I compare them to my H, and I always feel better around my H--not sure if without any contact this would go away.
I think sharing your fun activities is good. Don't share a lot. Let him be curious.
Friendship might be the basis for reconciliation--or not. We have to know both outcomes are possible. I choose to be positive and trust that the best will happen.
