I've read through most of this thread and felt as though I were reading my own H's possible postings 5-10 years into the future. I've learned a lot, so thank you for sharing, 4311, and for your amazing insides, Kaffe.
BTW Tori, not sure where you are on you path, not exactly sure what you meant by seeing 5-10 yrs into the future. I mean, I get what you're saying but not sure of the specifics. Anyway, feel free to ask questions, ANY questions and I will offer all I have...