trying to save my marriage Phase 2

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I'm not sure how you can make changes at christmas either. I was worried that my parents would be upset. But they are okay with changing up Christmas Eve. I haven't talked to DD about it yet, but I need to. I don't know that you have to change something, just add something special for you and DD.

My H comes in and its a little odd, but he basically just does what he needs to do and leaves. This weekend was DD's winter formal with BF and H came over to see her dressed up. He came in, got his mail and then started snacking on some pecans I had on the counter. I offered him a beer and told him it was in the frig. I was getting ready and DD was still getting ready. I talked to him while he sat on the couch eating pecans, drinking beer and watch football. We chatted periodically about DD's school and other things. But really just chatting, nothing heavy. We even took a family pix with DD in the middle. But him leaving was terrible. I guess because I hadn't seen him in almost month, it was so hard to watch him leave and me not have a clue where he was going. I was weepy all weekend. Because of that and a statement that DD made Friday night. See my post here - warning it's long, if you have time, just read the first post and the last few ... Notsurewhattodo thread