I just pulled the cell logs... something I hadn't done in a few days.
Friday evening W stepped outside for a smoke. I called her because S threw up and I needed help. She was talking with suspected OM for 15 minutes. My call showed up as Call Waiting, interrupting their conversation.
Makes me sick... and explains the distance I was feeling on Friday.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done